Why does everyone think that sex always ends with the penis ending up in the vagina? It also works wonderfully without penetration! And can be so much nicer for both partners.
This text comes from the stern archive and is one of the most read pieces of the year. It was first published on January 20th.
For most people, penetration is the holy grail of sexuality. The penis has to go into the vagina, the eel into the pleasure cave, the ball into the goal… otherwise it’s not sex.
I’ll tell you a secret now: I won’t! We haven’t had penetrative sex for a while. At first it was because getting wet wasn’t working for me anymore. I then put so much pressure on myself, was afraid that I would be a desert again instead of an oasis, that it robbed me of my desire.