infidelity
The most common fling excuses on Christmas days
A good excuse should ensure that the affair remains a secret even at Christmas.
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Affairs shouldn’t be forgotten at Christmas either. A survey reveals the most common excuses men and women use to have time for an affair at Christmas.
The biggest problem around Christmas? Annoying in-laws? A dry goose?
No: “How do I meet my relationship without the partner becoming suspicious?” – this worry drives almost all infidelities. Christmas is hell for them. When family idylls are made at home, the nerves of the secret lover are on edge. Some are giving presents and the others are sitting alone with a consolation bottle of red wine in front of the candle table.
The pressure on the bound part of the arrangement is therefore great to see the affair also at Christmas. Victoria Milan is a portal for such affairs. A survey among the users showed that 76 percent of the men and 68 percent of the women who are registered on the affair page also want to see their secret lovers on the holidays or before.
Shopping and old friends
Women are most likely to make last-minute emergency purchases. To get a few hours off, 32 percent of women said they still had to get a present. For men it is ten percent. That wouldn’t be a good excuse for those who don’t like shopping. Men like to pull an old friend up their sleeve whom they absolutely have to see where he’s around for Christmas. 33 percent of men use this pretext. But 25 percent of women also think of best friends to make room for a lunchtime.
Dates that are so important that you have to go to the company on your days off are not realistic for every job. Yet 14 percent of men and 11 percent of women use this excuse. The flood of different Christmas parties and joint mulled wine excursions with the company can be seen with different eyes if you know the survey by “Victoria Milan”. 20 percent of men and 16 percent of women invent such a festivity, after all they have cleared an entire evening for the affair.
Busy holidays
Other details of love planning were also mentioned on the questionnaire. 18 percent of men find it tiring to spend the days with their ancestral partner. The desire for great sex – obviously not with the official partner – is 36 percent. Satisfying children, spouses and relationships, however, drains the substance. 30 percent of respondents said they were exhausted from using extra energy on their partner.
Small consolation: Half of the women who are deceitful spend at least more money on gifts from their long-term partners than on gifts from lovers. Victoria Milan founder Sigurd Vedal has an explanation for this: “Everyone has a different way of showing their love.” “Scammers want to have extraordinary sex during the holidays, but they also buy gifts for their long-term partners. With the gifts they show that they care for them too.”