Self-determination law: Men also invade shelters for women in this way

Self-Determination Act
Men don’t need an invitation to enter shelters for women

Trans Rights are Human Rights – agrees with our author. She therefore finds the Self-Determination Act urgently overdue.

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It’s finally here – the Self-Determination Act. But criticism comes from all corners. Our author can only understand part of the criticism: the self-determination law must become more self-determined.

The Self-Determination Act is here and the clamor is great. With the new law, everyone can suddenly “have their gender changed” and enter women’s saunas with impunity. “But the shelters for women,” critics exclaim indignantly. It’s as if they had never taken part in physical education class, when the teacher decided to give the girls another helping hand and then, quite accidentally, of course, the hand landed on their butt.

Men do not need an invitation to enter women’s shelters, nor do they need legitimacy. They have also never needed permission to harass women and have repeatedly gotten away with abusive behavior. If you want to turn these shelters into unsafe places, no gender entry has prevented you from doing so and no gender entry will prevent you in the future.

trans* people are not the problem

As a young woman, I have experienced situations myself several times in which I felt insecure because of men and I know numerous stories from girlfriends in which they had to experience abusive behavior from men. Nothing is further from my mind than wanting to deny women encroaching experiences with men, because unfortunately there are still far too many of them in 2023. But trans* people and their right to a decent life, their right to a self-determined life, are not the problem.

At the end of the day, the problem is still men who behave in abusive ways, and a self-determination law will not change that. Because they are now pushing into our rooms without any legitimation if they feel like it. Trans* people, in turn, are further suspected of being evil and abusive through these arguments.

Trans* people are much more cautious. Retreat rather than actively enter shelters for fear of discrimination. Friends of mine who are trans* put up with being addressed with the wrong pronouns on a daily basis in order not to attract too much attention. Most of them haven’t been to the swimming pool or sauna for a long time. Much too great the concern of hostilities in the changing room in which they would actually feel more comfortable. The dysphoria, i.e. the feeling of being unwell in one’s own body, is too great when it simply doesn’t match what most would associate with one’s own gender. That’s already a problem when going to the public toilet. Which one is the right one now, if I don’t identify as male or female, but as non-binary?

Important terms explained

Cis

People who are “cis” identify with the gender they were assigned at birth.

dead name

The first name that a trans person has dropped.

Miscellaneous

Since 2018, according to the Civil Status Act, it has been possible to indicate male, female, no information or various in gender entries. The term is only used in official documents such as passports or birth certificates.

sex

The term comes from English – but has also established itself in Germany. It is used to distinguish between biological sex (sex) and social sex (gender). Gender roles are also anchored in social gender – i.e. what we see as typically female or male.

gender identity

“Gender identity includes physical and social gender and is based on one’s own sense of gender. There is a variety of gender identities. A person’s gender identity can – especially in the case of trans* people – differ from the gender assigned at birth,” says it in the glossary of the FU Berlin.

gender dysphoria

It means that a person suffers from the condition that their biological sex does not match their gender identity. This level of suffering can arise because one’s own appearance does not match one’s own gender ideas, but also if the environment perceives trans* people as the wrong gender.

non-binary

People who are non-binary are neither fully feminine nor fully masculine.

pronoun

In the German language, when we don’t want to use the name to talk about a person, we use gender-related pronouns. So: he, she, her. Some trans* people also use these pronouns for themselves, others use alternative pronouns such as “xier”. Or they always use the name instead of pronouns.

Self-Determination Act

The Self-Determination Act is intended to replace the existing Transsexual Act. This should enable trans* people, among other things, to change their first name much more easily.

trans identity

It is a neologism. This term dispenses with the word “transsexual”. This term makes it clear that it is not just about sexuality. Rather, it is about identifying with a gender other than the one assigned at birth.

Trans*

People who are “trans*” do not identify with the gender they were assigned at birth. The asterisk is intended to include all people on the trans* spectrum.

transit

Transition denotes the transition from one gender to another. During medical transition, trans* people adapt their biological sex to their gender identity with the help of medical treatments. That means: Through hormone therapy and gender reassignment surgeries, a trans* man can modify his body so that he looks masculine.

Trans* woman

A woman who was assigned the male gender at birth.

Trans* man

A man who was assigned the female gender at birth.

transgender law

The German transsexual law came into force in 1980. “The Transsexual Act, as it currently applies, only regulates the legal framework if I want to change my first name and/or marital status. Two expert opinions are required for this and a decision will then be made in court, says Hamburg Green Party politician Adrian Hector.

Sources: Glossary Free University of Berlin, Bpb

The self-determination law needs more self-determination

Of course, one can and must criticize the law in a meaningful way. It would go something like this: The Self-Determination Act is not far-reaching enough and continues to open the floodgates to discrimination against trans* people. Justice Minister Marco Buschmann (FDP), for example, has included an explicit reference to domiciliary rights in the law, which makes it clear: Anyone who owns a sauna and has doubts about the gender of a person should continue to throw them out, even with a female gender entry. The law also contains a clause that effectively overrides it in time of war – at least when the gender entry is changed to female. The argument: otherwise men would take advantage of the law to evade military service.

Authorities should also be informed if the gender entry is changed. According to the law, this should ensure that no one can avoid criminal prosecution by changing the gender entry. All of these regulations aim to prevent misuse of the law, but in the end they only cause further discrimination – legitimated by law. In any case, such a transmission of the data is not intended in the event of a name change due to a wedding. And that’s just the beginning of the areas where there is an urgent need to catch up.

“The fact that a man changes his gender entry with all the associated consequences just to enter a women’s sauna or a toilet and harass women is unreal,” writes Ferda Ataman, the Federal Commissioner for Anti-Discrimination, in a statement to “Zeit” and thus brings her the absurdity in a nutshell. She is not alone in this. Many trans* and queer activists have been criticizing this since the first draft and have been calling for significant improvements to the draft law for a long time before it is finally passed in the Bundestag.

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In any case, the law as it stands is anything but an attack on the rights of women, because they don’t want to restrict trans* and non-binary people. However, it continues to stoke the already worsening trans*phobia in Germany and ensures that trans* people continue to be stigmatized. The law should protect trans* and non-binary people and not make them even more under general suspicion through discriminatory passages. Self-determination and anti-discrimination, finally listening to those affected, is different.

But despite all justified criticism – the law is an important step in the right direction and many trans* and non-binary people have been waiting for these overdue innovations for a long time. Finally, they no longer have to face the discriminatory procedure of the old, unconstitutional law. The only thing that needs to be adjusted now is the increment, so that in the end we also get a self-determination law that deserves its name.

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