“When the end of summer comes, then you have to part ways. Contrary to Laurent Voulzy’s song, it’s not on a beach but in Toulouse that summer love ends at the start of the school year. In the Pink City full of excitement and bubbling, our three bachelors, Anastasia, Jasmine and Julien must return to their daily metro-work-sleep. The time for foraging, “watered summer evenings” and the quest for a nice encounter is over. The specialty of the Southwest is ducks, isn’t it? So did they end up falling madly in love?
Remember, Julien finally fell in love with a pretty Toulouse girl after a year of wandering. “The feeling and the good times present” had brightened up his summer. But, caricature of this 23-year-old young man, behind the shyness, the fear of commitment was still very present. The “disgusted with love” had fled his feelings and was divided between his heart and his reason. What about today ? “You could say that I am in a relationship! “, delights the old broken heart.
“I rediscovered that I loved to love”
In one summer, the young brunette has made his merry way. “I rediscovered that I actually liked to love. “Madly in love with his little brunette with green eyes who completely charmed him in a few weeks, it is now a new question that arises for this brand new couple: the distance. Yes, even if Julien’s life is now as fluid as his little blue shirts, life is never very simple. “I will be in Paris and she in Toulouse. We just started our relationship and I don’t know how to do it right. “In any case, this time, he is motivated and he will not take his legs around his neck.
Lucia’s + : “In the case of a long-distance relationship, the first question to ask is to measure a little bit the momentum and the enthusiasm that we mutually show. You have to be realistic and know if we really fell in love with each other and that we want to give each other a chance. In this case, we can have the motivation to succeed in the relationship at a distance, ”says the love coach Lucie Mariotti. “The second thing is that you have to very quickly set up a calendar of physical meetings. The third thing is to favor all the means of communication that you are lucky to have: SMS, video, Facetime, etc. Exchange as much as possible to keep the link. And don’t forget, if it’s agreed and it’s fun to make love over the phone to maintain an intimate bond.
A summer release
On Anastasia’s side, things took a new turn. The lover of love with “artichoke heart” had found her ex-boyfriend to finally end this relationship definitively. A bad for a good in the end. And today, the beautiful blonde wants to focus on her new job and her new apartment. A rebirth without a guy or a crush. But she does not turn her back on a potential budding relationship. “Having finally moved on with my ex has really helped me. For the first time, I feel ready to really meet someone and open up. »
It must be said that for four years, the Toulouse sun had not managed to develop real feelings for another star. “A Block” and Ex Therapy. A door closed to reopen another. “I can’t wait to see what awaits me,” whispers the young graphic designer, all smiles, curious about the future, relieved of a heavy burden from the past. Now, in intoning an air of Diam’s, the “young lady is looking for a deadly guy”. It will therefore not be a summer love but a year-round affair.
Lucia’s + : “I recommend that he take the necessary time to rebuild himself and experience new things. I think it’s the best time to expand your comfort zone. Do things that she has never done before, that she was afraid of or that she thought were ridiculous or not for her, ”advises the love coach. “Getting out of your comfort zone in terms of activities, places and relationships is something that is completely in the following stages of reconstruction and openness to oneself and to the other in a universe of rebirth. which can only bring him good and beauty. »
“I prefer to work on myself”
And Jasmine in all this? The one who had found “the ideal crush” and was projecting herself for the first time since her breakup a year ago had left us before a weekend between “lovers”. And it’s won – or almost –, “it went really well. We are on the same wavelength. It’s really great to spend time with her. We are very fusional and it’s easy with her. The pretty Jasmine turns into a Julien all the same: “I don’t want to ask myself for the moment. I’m going little by little but for the moment, I prefer not to take my head and not project myself. The bird does not want to go back into the cage. “I understood that I had suffered a lot from my last relationship and I prefer to work on myself. I think it’s important that I feel good alone before committing myself. A very mature decision for the twenty-something. Today, the young woman devotes herself to her relationship “just like a couple” but also to potential other encounters: “It’s to see if I have this girl still in my head or that in the end not so much… »
Lucia’s + : For Lucie Mariotti, Jasmine is going in the right direction. “I completely agree with Jasmine. From the moment when she doesn’t feel ready to invest herself in the couple because she prefers to work on herself, I find that she does things in the right order. That does not mean that she must put an end to her budding relationship, but she must indeed, in the balance, balance her priorities well and in this case, it is herself. As for dating other girls to find out if she really cares about this girl, that would be immaturity. I don’t think she needs that to know if he likes her. It would not go in the direction of this sane and wise state of mind to work on it”.