Do you and your partner argue? Most of us assume that a couple who argues has a less solid relationship and is less likely to stick together for the long haul than a couple that doesn’t. We tend to equate low levels of conflict with happiness, after all.
But that just isn’t true. Indeed, the reverse may well be the case — low conflict relationships are often more, not less, fragile, as we’ll explain later.
It’s not whether there’s conflict