The relationship is going well, only sex is almost non-existent. What to do? The column “Dear couple” starts with this question from a reader, in which the therapists Nadja and Clemens von Saldern solve relationship problems.
My question is so cliche it’s almost embarrassing, but that’s the way it is: My wife and I have been together for almost 20 years and our relationship is going well. Unfortunately, we don’t have much sex anymore, she goes to bed before 10 p.m. every night. I’d like to encourage this more often – but I don’t know how to do that without making her feel obligated to do something. Do you have any tips for me?