Amira Pocher shared a cryptic statement after their breakup. Image: IMAGO/STAR MEDIA
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Oliver and Amira Pocher recently announced that their marriage had failed. In their joint podcast, Amira explained: “We thought that this is probably the best way we can say it: We are separated”.
Recently, a friend of Olli’s called Mola Adebisi. He explained that while the comedian is sad at the moment, he’s not really worried about him. He also gave an insight into the possible reasons for the separation. “Let me put it this way, Amira has developed in recent years. Olli is just like Olli is and it will stay that way.”
Amira herself has now shared a post on Instagram, which can also be understood as a comment on possible reasons for separation.
Oliver and Amira Pocher process the separation differently.Image: imago images/ localpic
Oliver Pocher processes marriage-off with humor
Oliver Pocher had recently made it clear that he wanted to deal with the topic with humor above all. In his story, he recently showed a plush Baby Yoda figure that Amira had recently wanted and that he now “organized” for her. He is now “Amira’s new bed partner,” he wrote. In another post, he explained that he will soon catch up with Lothar Matthäus when it comes to failed marriages.
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Amira shares meaningful video on Instagram
Amira herself hit much more thoughtful tones on Instagram. However, the presenter let others speak for themselves. In her story, she shared a video by author Joshua Rosa.
In the clip, he spoke in detail about how different developments in a relationship can become a problem. “There’s a point where you have to realize: if you have to tell someone all the time what you want, what you desire, what you are, you have to conclude that they don’t respect you,” Joshua said. And he continued:
“They don’t respect the things you desire, the things you do, because it’s more important to them to do it or feel it the way they want it to do it or feel it than how what you desire.”
Apparently, this part of his explanation seems to have been particularly important for Amira, because it was this snippet that she shared in her story.
In the caption for the post, Joshua also explained what to do if you notice such a trend in the relationship. “Stop selling yourself short. Stop settling for small things when you deserve the big picture,” he advised there.
Amira Pocher leaves the video uncommented
Amira obviously wanted to let Joshua’s statement stand alone. The moderator did not elaborate on her decision to share the post.
But the article also highlighted another aspect of different developments in a relationship. “Respect has to be mutual. And if you’re willing to give in, you must also be willing to give up.” As a consequence, there is a separation, as is now the case with the Pochers.