In this new episode of “ Everything is explained », The podcast which questions sexuality and society, we discuss cunnilingus with Catherine Blanc. The psychoanalyst and sexologist published Uninhibited sexuality (Flammarion, 2015). In her book, the author asks: “Do all women like cunnilingus? “. Is this sexual act so “simple” to give as to receive?
Like about the blowjob, which we were talking about in the last one
episode of ” Everything is explained », There is, in this area, neither rule nor generality. We appreciate or not this sexual act, give it as well as receive it.
Invitation to let go
In this podcast, the sex therapist returns to the difficulty, in some people who receive this genital kiss, of letting go. The reason ? All “do not live their sex with the same peace of mind.” The vulva, the lips, the clitoris, the entrance to the vagina can inspire very diverse reactions, love, admiration for some, but also disgust for others. Letting kiss, and kissing this part of the body is not anecdotal, because this sexual act involves “exposing yourself, daring to leave your sex in the sight and observation of the other”. “To love cunnilingus, you have to have confidence in the other to gain self-confidence, and self-confidence, to allow confidence in the other,” recalls Catherine Blanc in this episode, to listen to above.